Love or Hate?
Have you ever been in love?Sometimes, Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defences, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you. Then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like stare at you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real rip-you-apart pain. I hate love. But still i love it"
I am writing these in the wake of an incident that i saw about a month back.
When i see a guy and a gal together(So called lovers), i always remember Tanu, as she once said,
" When a persons emotional needs were not met when he/she is growing up and there was nothing he/she could do about it. Those persons even today, tend not to express anger or pain or resentment or their feelings except when they are in an infrequent rage or overjoyed. It is these people most of the times who go in search of or fall in love, and after finding it even the smallest things that they don't like from their so called 'lover' will make them behave in an absurd way.Thay never give the reason why they behave in such a manner but still they care for him/her"
When she said this, i never cared to understand anything. But when i saw those two buggers, i mean the guy who was slapping her right in front of a busy mall but still she was going behind him saying ' that she still loves him' . What the HECK........is this the absurd behaviour that she told?
I am still in confusion about this love. Even while they behave in such a rude manner, why do they care for each other?
Sometimes i think is this love or hate?
And then i think, this stupid love has lot of hidden meanings.......why should i bother?
But still my mind never stops thinking about it.
Hey.......could u tell me?
Have you ever been in love?Sometimes, Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defences, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you. Then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like stare at you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real rip-you-apart pain. I hate love. But still i love it"
I am writing these in the wake of an incident that i saw about a month back.
When i see a guy and a gal together(So called lovers), i always remember Tanu, as she once said,
" When a persons emotional needs were not met when he/she is growing up and there was nothing he/she could do about it. Those persons even today, tend not to express anger or pain or resentment or their feelings except when they are in an infrequent rage or overjoyed. It is these people most of the times who go in search of or fall in love, and after finding it even the smallest things that they don't like from their so called 'lover' will make them behave in an absurd way.Thay never give the reason why they behave in such a manner but still they care for him/her"
When she said this, i never cared to understand anything. But when i saw those two buggers, i mean the guy who was slapping her right in front of a busy mall but still she was going behind him saying ' that she still loves him' . What the HECK........is this the absurd behaviour that she told?
I am still in confusion about this love. Even while they behave in such a rude manner, why do they care for each other?
Sometimes i think is this love or hate?
And then i think, this stupid love has lot of hidden meanings.......why should i bother?
But still my mind never stops thinking about it.
Hey.......could u tell me?
posted by mohan at
5:37 AM
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